As an education expert and parent myself, I know that choosing the right school for your child is incredibly important and also challenging. Should you consider a prep school or private school? What exactly sets them apart? This definitive guide examines all aspects of prep schools and private schools to understand the key differences and help you make the best decision for your family.
First, let‘s clearly define these terms so we have a shared understanding of what prep schools and private schools are:
Defining Prep Schools
Prep schools, short for college preparatory schools, are private secondary schools focused specifically on preparing high school students for higher education. They typically serve grades 9-12.
The main goals of prep schools include:
- Rigorous academics to challenge students
- Small class sizes for personalized attention
- Robust college counseling and focus on admissions
- Competitive sports teams and extracurriculars
- Community service and character development
Many prep schools are boarding schools where students can live on campus full-time. Others are day schools that students commute to daily. All prep schools charge tuition, with boarding options being the most expensive.
Defining Private Schools
Like prep schools, private schools are independently funded schools that charge tuition and can be day or boarding. But there is wider variety among private schools when it comes to:
- Educational philosophies and teaching approaches
- Range of grades served – some are K-12 schools
- Mix of academic, arts, athletic and other priorities
- Competitiveness of admissions and academics
Private schools allow families to find an educational style that fits their child best in areas like religious instruction, specific academic focuses like STEM or arts, and other specialized offerings.
How Prep Schools and Private Schools Compare
While prep schools and private schools have some overlap, there are clear differences that set them apart:
Academics & Curriculum
- Prep schools universally prioritize rigorous college-prep academics with strong focus on math, sciences, writing skills. Mostly traditional teaching models.
- Private schools offer diverse learning philosophies (Montessori, progressive, etc.) and flexible programs to suit different learners.
Class Sizes
- Prep schools emphasize small class sizes for academic support and attention. Typically 12-15 students per class.
- Private school class size varies more widely, from 15-22 students per class on average.
Extracurriculars
- Competitive, well-funded sports teams and clubs are a hallmark of prep schools. Facilities and coaches aim for excellence.
- Private schools also offer sports and clubs but participation and skill levels are more varied depending on school resources.
Cost & Affordability
- Prep school tuition averages $25k-$55k. Most offer need-based financial aid. Boarding and top schools exceed $60k per year.
- Private school tuition averages $10-$30k. Very high-end schools in metro areas can be up to $50k. Financial aid varies greatly.
Admissions
- Extremely competitive for top prep schools, even at young ages. Expect entrance exams, intense review of academic and extracurricular records, interviews.
- Admissions at most private schools involves submissions of past academic records, interviews, and review for fit. Usually less intense than prep schools.
Boarding
- Many prep schools are full boarding schools with majority of students living on campus full-time. Structured lifestyle prepares for college.
- Fewer private schools offer boarding. Those that do provide strong residential life services and supervision of student boarders.
School Culture
- Prep schools cultivate a distinct culture and identity with strong school spirit, pride and traditions. Emphasis on community and shared values.
- Private school culture is varied depending on history, leadership, and priorities. Can be academically-driven or more progressive. Wide diversity across schools.
As you can see, prep schools priorities academic preparation for college admissions while private schools take a more varied approach based on each school‘s unique mission and philosophy. There‘s overlap, but the focus does differ.
Key Factors to Consider in Your Decision
As you weigh private and prep schools, keep these additional factors in mind:
Location
Consider whether boarding or commuting is preferred. Research options within the desired area or within reasonable commuting distance.
Special Needs
Assess how well potential schools can support any special learning needs or medical conditions. Meet with student support staff.
Finances
Realistically assess how much your family can pay per year. Thoroughly investigate financial aid options that fit your situation.
Family Needs
Consider siblings and coordinating school choice for convenience. Assess if flexibility for parent travel or schedules is necessary.
Student Interests
Identify your child‘s main academic and extracurricular interests. Research program offerings through school tours and current family interviews.
Every child and every family situation is unique. By prioritizing your student‘s needs and your family dynamics, you can determine if a prep school or private school (or public school) offers the best overall fit. School culture also plays a huge role in student happiness and outcomes, so visit schools in person whenever possible.
While the prep versus private school decision may feel overwhelming initially, taking it step-by-step and focusing on your child first makes the process manageable. There are great options in both categories that can prepare your student for college and beyond.
Hopefully this guide has broken down the key similarities and differences to provide clarity as you evaluate prep schools and private schools. Please reach out with any other questions!